Love

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What is love?

Can anyone describe the meaning of love for me?

Because somehow, that is just too absurd..

I feel like it is been forever since last time I fall in love.

I do not understand
How head-over-heels people can become so irrational.

How people become so brainless in front of an-opposite-gender-person they love.

How people can lose all their pride, begging someone they love to not leave.

How a good person can date (or get) a really bad person, because sometimes it looks so unfair.

How people hurt each other only to get someone they love.

Am I heartless? Call me that way.

But just because I often think about all of those above, does not mean I do not feel any love now.

Yes I feel some love. But I am not pretty sure what feeling is that since the absurdness of love itself.

While I am still with the same person for 3 years, I see my bestfriend dating with 3 different guys as time goes by.

Sometimes, I think deeply about those people around me who can easily get new boyfriend or girlfriend.

How can those people fall in love so easily?

Acquaintance, then get to know each other 3-5 weeks and voila! They are dating.

Or in some cases, if they break up, they automatically playing a game named who-can-get-new-bf/gf-sooner-win.

Familiar with that?

If you love them, why should you hurt them?

Just be honest with yourself, and also them.

Do not be so hypocrite, telling you do not love them anymore but your heart does.

What is the point from that? Escape from reality?

Just be honest. Be honest with yourself.

If the circumstance does not support you to tell them, just accept that, in silence.

Pray. Pray may you can get what you deserve sooner.

Do not rush yourself to forget.

If you feel hurt seeing them with someone else, enjoy that feeling.

Because, it proves that you are alive.

It proves that you have heart.

It proves that you deserve someone else who can make you happier.

If a person you love stop giving you happiness, then why should you lose all your happiness just to get them?

"Going through a path which they don't know yet, but one thing for sure that they know, that there will be someone who always guide them, remind them, and look after them, muz."

—D.M.R