Don't be Yourself

WHAAAAAT? DON'T BE YOURSELF??
I'D RATHER BE MYSELF THAN SOMEONE ELSE
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Wait, wait. Calm down :p
That's not like what you think, kok xD tehee

Well, have you ever thought that “Be Yourself” phrase would make you getting worse person?

Nope? Okay. I will explain my thoughts about this :)

We often see everywhere, in social media to be exact. That we should be ourselves no matter how bad we are or even don’t give a fck for what other people think about you, just be yourself and soooo many more.

I confess that we are as the human, have our own personality, our own quirky, our own weirdness, or even our own beauty. And we shouldn’t be anyone else but ourselves.

We should be confident with ourselves. With our decision, our mind, and even with our own body.

That’s the good point.

But remember, there’s bad point too.

We will often use that phrase to justify our stupid behavior that would make us worse.

We will don’t know what is right or what is wrong little by little, because we often justify stupid things in the name to be ourselves and don’t give a damn for what other people think.

Whereas, there is any possibility that what their thinking about us will make us being a better person, right?

Sometimes, we need other people’s perspective because they can ‘see’ us better than ourselves. We should be open-minded with other people’s mind and opinion. We are human, not perfect, ever made mistakes. Don’t be trapped only by your own mind. Because sometimes, what we think will not always right.

Always think and decide with logic, not with your heart. Take what good for you, not what comfort you.

That is why, don’t be yourself. But BE YOUR-BEST-SELF.

If you could be better, why you should be like now? ;)